Grandma's House is MY House Too!
A great stress free Thanksgiving. My brother cooked almost all of Thanksgiving by himself. I assisted with a couple of dishes with my Mom's help, and my sister brought over a lovely Waldorf salad. I am thankful for my family. My brother in law was able to stay, eat a wonderful Thanksgiving meal in our sun room, go into the living room and watch a football game with my brothers - the first time he has stayed this long since his stroke 2 years ago. He had a great time, and we all did too!! My sister was able to stay long enough to relax, and my Mom had a wonderful afternoon and evening, after a rough start this morning. We had tornados going through last night, so we were all thankful that the damage passed us by!
Mom is 80 this year and woke up this morning with a scare being too dizzy to stand or walk. She has had quite a few mini-strokes and has high blood pressure in addition to being a colon cancer survivor and having advanced COPD. I try to be very cautious with her health, but she can be very stubborn about getting medical help. I finally convinced her to take a Zofran she had for nausea, and then to eat a little something and her headache and the seasickness went away. If it hadn't we would have been heading over to an emergency room to make sure she had not had another TIA.
She does not have a good sense of hunger since they removed part of her stomach when she had colon cancer surgery a couple of years ago, so I was not sure what she had eaten the day before. My brothers were cooking in our kitchen, and I think she got so interested in the cooking she forgot to eat. I got home late and asked her if she had eaten and she told me yes, but I think she misremembered since eating something this morning made her symptoms go away. She felt fine the rest of the day, so watchful waiting tomorrow to make sure she still feels OK. She definitely ate plenty today!!
I will find out the results of my EMG next week. Dr. Welby was very nice and explained his preliminary findings to me yesterday. I definitely do not have diabetic neuropathy. I definitely do not have peripheral neuropathy. I defnitely do not have a structural issue like spinal stenosis or degenerative disk disease. I have normal nerve function in my lower nerves. I have abnormal nerve function in my lumbosacral plexus which feeds the nerve impulses down to my lower nerves. There seems to be a lot of mis-signaling going on in the plexus, perhaps due to fibrotic changes from pelvic radiation therapy. He could tell I had abnormal nerve signalling going on as concerns pain location and perception. He has treated one other person for post radiation lumbosacral plexopathy - a 70 yo man who had radiation for testicular cancer 40 some years ago and just NOW is having problems.
He understood when I told him my digestive issues were thought to be due to nerve damage in the intestines rather than mucosal damage. He spoke to me as if I had a functioning brain and not once did he try to pooh pooh my concerns (as the Dr. Dunces did). He said I did not show myokemic discharges in the plexus nerves which very easily points to radiation nerve damage, but not everyone has that symptom. He had a difficult time finding a functional nerve to test in my lumbosacral region. He felt that perhaps I have damage in the cauda equina region also based on the symptoms I gave him. Sigh... Well at least they can't tell me AGAIN I have peripheral neuropahty or diabetic neuropathy. These have been finally and absolutely RULED OUT. I guess I have that to be Thankful For! Adding it to my list!!! Just wondering what the final report will say, as I asked specifically what my future will look like. Sigh again...
Hoping you all have great Thanksgivings and don't wear yourselves out too much. Praying that you all have pain free holidays!
When I hit the big four oh, I found that my body started to fall apart one piece at a time. My warranty had expired and there was No Extended Warranty available! This is the story of my struggle to keep it all together using spare parts and baling twine.
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Thursday, November 25, 2010
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Happy Thanksgiving

Smoked Turkey!
My brothers are so kind, this week they are taking on the task of Thanksgiving dinner. We won't be having it today, but tomorrow night because one of my brother's son and grandsons will be coming over, and my sister and her husband and their very very spoiled extra cute puppy Gracie.
Pictured is the turkey, which my younger brother is smoking today - apparently it is a many hour process. It has been smoking with apple wood chips for about three hours so far, but apparently won't be finished until this evening sometime. He said it will be color of dark mahogony when it is complete. On the menu is a spiral cut ham, smoked turkey, home canned green beans, "party" potatoes (my brother from Cedar Rapids says its a staple there), relish trays (a tradition in our family), deviled eggs (my older brother's specialty), and homemade cheesecakes (chocolate/carmel turtle and kiwi varieties) raisin pie and black walunt chocolate pie.
I am trying to clean house today, but am just going to do what I can do, and that will have to be what it is. I have stayed home all week, working from home more each day. Monday was especially bad, but each day is getting better - I was able to eat a small portion of meat last night! Woo Hoo!!! Hoping I can eat some Thanksgiving dinner tomorrow.
Today is a day of reflection, and reaffirmation of the positive things in my life. I am especially thankful for:
The list could go on and on, but I've got to try to clean some more. I was resting a bit to write this and now I feel that I can return to picking up, sweeping, dusting, and mopping. It's amazing how dirty the floor seems to get when you can't keep up with your weekly routine!
My family, friends, and my furry family
My home, even as messy as it currently is
Days of good health
My job, which I love AND my employers, who are fantastic
My blogging friends in particular and the blogging community in general
Computers - I remember the days BEFORE personal computers
Sunshiney fall days
God's place in my daily life
Silk quilted coverlets so warm and light!
Occipital Stimulators and those who
made getting mine possible
All my other (and many) healthcare providers
Potato Peelers and Tater Mashers
The list could go on and on, but I've got to try to clean some more. I was resting a bit to write this and now I feel that I can return to picking up, sweeping, dusting, and mopping. It's amazing how dirty the floor seems to get when you can't keep up with your weekly routine!
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